{"id":49143,"date":"2023-04-29T14:52:09","date_gmt":"2023-04-29T11:52:09","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/?post_type=mhpss&#038;p=49143"},"modified":"2023-05-11T13:40:26","modified_gmt":"2023-05-11T10:40:26","slug":"cocuklarimiz-ile-saglikli-sinirlar-belirlemek-pozitif-disiplin","status":"publish","type":"mhpss","link":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/mhpss\/cocuklarimiz-ile-saglikli-sinirlar-belirlemek-pozitif-disiplin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z ile Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 S\u0131n\u0131rlar Belirlemek: Pozitif Disiplin"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Bak\u0131m verenler, fiziksel cezan\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n istenmeyen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol alt\u0131na alaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebilirler fakat bu tamam\u0131yla yanl\u0131\u015f bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncedir. \u00c7ocu\u011fun bedensel ceza yoluyla bir \u015feyler \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz ama asl\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fun bu yolla \u00f6\u011frendikleri; <strong><em>korkmak, \u00e7ekinmek<\/em> ve <em>geri \u00e7ekilmektir.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuk, bedensel ceza yoluyla do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, yani ondan ne istedi\u011fimizi \u00f6\u011frenemez.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u015eimdi bu duruma bir \u00f6rnekle bakal\u0131m. \u0130ki \u00e7ocu\u011funuz var. B\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuz ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlarken k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuz abisinden silgi istedi, abisi de silgiyi uzaktan att\u0131. Silgi yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131kla karde\u015finin y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00e7arpt\u0131 ve k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocuk a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Bu durum kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda siz b\u00fcy\u00fck o\u011flunuza sinirlendiniz ve ona fiziksel ceza vermek istiyorsunuz. E\u011fer b\u00f6yle davran\u0131rsan\u0131z, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuz \u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcp, sinirlenebilir. Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131 b\u0131rakabilir ve karde\u015fine art\u0131k yard\u0131m etmek istemeyebilir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>B\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun amac\u0131 karde\u015fini a\u011flatmak de\u011fildi. Bu kaza ile oldu. Ancak, bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n sonucunda fiziksel bir ceza uygularsan\u0131z, haks\u0131zl\u0131k hissi ile hem size hem de karde\u015fine kar\u015f\u0131 olumsuz hisler geli\u015ftirebilir. \u00d6te yandan, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuk do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131, yani b\u00f6yle bir durumda ne yapsa daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hala \u00f6\u011frenememi\u015f durumda. B\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocuk a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda, ya\u015fanan bu olayda, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015fine yard\u0131m etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken su\u00e7lu durumuna d\u00fc\u015fm\u00fc\u015f oldu\u011funu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmesi y\u00fcksek bir olas\u0131l\u0131k. Hatta karde\u015fine, a\u011flamaya ba\u015flad\u0131 diye k\u0131zm\u0131\u015f bile olabilir. B\u00f6yle bir durumda, b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun biraz sakinle\u015fmesine zaman tan\u0131y\u0131p sonras\u0131nda yan\u0131na gidebilirsiniz. &nbsp;\u00d6rne\u011fin, silgiyi uzaktan atmak yerine, kalk\u0131p k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck karde\u015finin yan\u0131na giderek vermesi b\u00f6yle bir kazay\u0131 engelleyecekti. Belki de e\u011fer silgi bir tane ise bir silgi daha almam\u0131z gerekli olabilir. Bu t\u00fcr \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmleri \u00fcretmek i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla konu\u015fabilir, ne t\u00fcr \u00e7areler bulunabilece\u011fini birlikte d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnebiliriz.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu yolla, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n sorunlara \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm bulma konusunda geli\u015fmelerine ve do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flar geli\u015ftirmelerine yard\u0131m edebiliriz.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bunu sakin bir ses tonu ile ve anlayabilecekleri \u015fekilde anlatmam\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Sinirlenip ani bir hamle ile \u00e7ocu\u011fu cezaland\u0131rd\u0131ysan\u0131z, bu olay\u0131n arkas\u0131ndan biraz sakinledi\u011finizde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yan\u0131na gidip, buna hakk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyip, \u201c\u00d6z\u00fcr dilerim\u201d diyebilirsiniz. Bu esnada \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla, olay hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fman\u0131z \u00f6nemlidir. B\u00f6yle bir olay ayr\u0131ca sizin de \u00fcz\u00fclmenize, ya\u015fanan olay nedeniyle pi\u015fmanl\u0131k duyman\u0131za neden olabilir. Kendi duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmezden gelmek yerine hislerinizi \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla payla\u015fmak, ona \u00fczg\u00fcn oldu\u011funuzu ifade etmek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun sizin duygular\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlamas\u0131na yard\u0131m edecek; size duydu\u011fu sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcvenin zarar g\u00f6rmesine engel olacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00d6z\u00fcr dilemek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun hem anne ve babalar olarak vakit vakit sinirlenebildi\u011finizi ya da ani tepkiler verebildi\u011finizi anlamas\u0131na, hem de ona k\u0131ymet verdi\u011finizi ve ki\u015fili\u011fine sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterdi\u011finizi g\u00f6rmesine yard\u0131m edecektir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"532\" src=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp-1024x532.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-49149\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp-1024x532.webp 1024w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp-300x156.webp 300w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp-768x399.webp 768w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp-1536x798.webp 1536w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_2-Large_comp.webp 1920w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>\u00c7ocuklara do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretme ve do\u011fru s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 belirlemede \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan daha iyi sonu\u00e7lar veren, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcven, sevgi ve sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 ili\u015fkiler kurulmas\u0131na katk\u0131da bulunan olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar ve y\u00f6ntemler vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Peki sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 belirlemek ve do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in neler yapabiliriz?&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Anne baba \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi sevgi, sayg\u0131 ve g\u00fcvene dayal\u0131 oldu\u011fu zaman iyi ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki kurulmu\u015f olur. \u0130yi ve sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir anne-baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinde kurallar olmal\u0131, bu kurallar herkes i\u00e7in yeterince net ve anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Kurallar ayr\u0131ca tutarl\u0131 ve mant\u0131kl\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r. Yaz\u0131n eve girme saati ile k\u0131\u015f\u0131n ya da okulun a\u00e7\u0131k oldu\u011fu vakitlerde eve girme saati de\u011fi\u015febilir. Pek \u00e7ok aile, \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in ak\u015fam eve girme vaktini \u2018g\u00fcne\u015fin bat\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan hemen \u00f6nce\u2019 olarak belirlemektedir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Kurallar\u0131n net olarak belirlenmesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun kafas\u0131n\u0131n kar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 engelleyecek ve ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 evde, anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmesini sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Pozitif Disiplin, \u00e7ocuklara hangi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n uygun oldu\u011funu ya da hangilerinin uygun olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a ifade edildi\u011fi sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve te\u015fvik edici bir \u015fekilde sosyal ya\u015fam becerilerinin \u00f6\u011fretildi\u011fi bir y\u00f6ntemdir. Pozitif disiplinin amac\u0131, \u00f6ncelikle \u00e7ocuklarla g\u00fcvenli ili\u015fkiler kurulmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-table\"><table><tbody><tr><td><strong>Pozitif disiplinin temeli zaman ve sab\u0131rd\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/strong><\/td><\/tr><\/tbody><\/table><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pozitif Disiplin Uygulamak i\u00e7in Kullan\u0131labilecek Y\u00f6ntemler:&nbsp;<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>1. \u00d6ncelikle, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 her zaman sayg\u0131l\u0131 olunmas\u0131 ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun te\u015fvik edilmesi bu disiplin i\u00e7in olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\">\n<li>Pozitif Disiplin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n aidiyet ve \u00f6nem duygusu hissetmelerine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n anne ve babalar\u0131yla kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00fcven, sevgi ve sayg\u0131ya dayal\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ba\u011f kurmas\u0131na olanak tan\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fumuz bize bir \u015fey g\u00f6sterirken, i\u015fimize devam edip, ona bakmadan \u201c\u00c7ok g\u00fczel olmu\u015f demek\u201d yerine, e\u011fer imkan\u0131m\u0131z varsa o an yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u015fe ara verip bize g\u00f6sterdi\u011fine bakmak, s\u00f6ylediklerini dinlemek; e\u011fer imkan\u0131m\u0131z yoksa, ondan biraz zaman isteyip i\u015fi bitirdikten sonra, g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi \u015feyle ilgilenmek, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun kendisini \u00f6nemli hissetmesini sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>S\u0131n\u0131r belirlenirken, belirlenen kurallar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklarla a\u00e7\u0131k ve net bir bi\u00e7imde payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekir. Belirlenen kurallar\u0131n \u015fahsi ya da keyfi nedenlerle de\u011fi\u015fmemesi olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. Kurallar gerekli ve \u00f6zel durumlarda esneyebilir, ancak durumdan duruma kural de\u011fi\u015fmez. Anne babalar\u0131n uymas\u0131 gereken kurallar da olmal\u0131d\u0131r.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Anne ve babalar\u0131n koyulan kurala \u00e7ocu\u011fun uyup uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 takip etmesi, uymad\u0131\u011f\u0131 anlarda g\u00f6rmezden gelmek yerine \u00e7ocu\u011fu nazik\u00e7e uyarmas\u0131 ve kurallar\u0131 hat\u0131rlatmas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Net beklentiler belirlemek \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun ondan ne istedi\u011fimizi anlamas\u0131na ve ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlay\u0131p ona g\u00f6re davranmas\u0131na olanak tan\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u201cB\u00fct\u00fcn g\u00fcn temizlik yapt\u0131m, evi da\u011f\u0131tma\u201d dedi\u011fimizde \u00e7ocuk ondan ne istedi\u011fimizi net olarak anlamayacakt\u0131r. Bunun yerine \u201c\u00d6devini bitirdikten sonra kitaplar\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7antana koy\u201d, ya da \u201cYiyece\u011fini elinde gezdirme, mutfakta ye\u201d demek \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzdan ne istedi\u011fimizi net bir \u015fekilde ifade etti\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ocu\u011fun ne yapmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlamas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fumuza tam olarak ne yapmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fimizi s\u00f6ylemek, ona \u015funu yapma bunu yapma demekten \u00e7ok daha etkilidir.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ve s\u00f6zlerimizin tutarl\u0131 olmas\u0131 ya\u015fam\u0131n her alan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu gibi \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirirken de olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocuk istemedi\u011fimiz bir davran\u0131\u015fta bulundu\u011funda, \u00f6rne\u011fin k\u00fcf\u00fcr etti\u011finde, \u201cYapma\u201d demek yerine g\u00fclmek, ard\u0131ndan ba\u015fka bir g\u00fcn yine ayn\u0131 davran\u0131\u015fta bulundu\u011funda \u00e7ok \u00f6fkelenmek tutars\u0131z bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Tutarl\u0131 olmak, pozitif anne babal\u0131kta \u00f6nemli bir fakt\u00f6rd\u00fcr.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemesi ve takdir edilmesi gerekti\u011fi, \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirirken dikkat edilmesi gereken di\u011fer bir noktad\u0131r. Anne babalar olarak genellikle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na odaklan\u0131r ve bu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftirmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r\u0131z. Unutulmamal\u0131d\u0131r ki \u00e7ocuklar takdir edildiklerinde kendilerini iyi hissederler, bu iyi his geli\u015fimlerine katk\u0131da bulunur. \u00c7ocuklar sevildiklerini ve \u00f6zel olduklar\u0131n\u0131 hissetmeye ihtiya\u00e7 duyarlar. \u0130yi bir \u015fey yapt\u0131klar\u0131nda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n bu olumlu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131 takdir etmek onlar\u0131 bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 yeniden yapmaya te\u015fvik edecektir.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 incitmemek ve kendilerini anlatmalar\u0131na imkan tan\u0131mak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015febilmeleri i\u00e7in duygular\u0131n\u0131, ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 bizimle payla\u015fabilmeleri \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r. Bu imkan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n konu\u015fma ve kendilerini ifade becerilerinin geli\u015fmesine de katk\u0131da bulunacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"569\" data-src=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp-1024x569.webp\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-49154 lazyload\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp-1024x569.webp 1024w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp-300x167.webp 300w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp-768x427.webp 768w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp-1536x854.webp 1536w, https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/disiplin_3-Large_comp.webp 1920w\" data-sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" src=\"data:image\/svg+xml;base64,PHN2ZyB3aWR0aD0iMSIgaGVpZ2h0PSIxIiB4bWxucz0iaHR0cDovL3d3dy53My5vcmcvMjAwMC9zdmciPjwvc3ZnPg==\" style=\"--smush-placeholder-width: 1024px; --smush-placeholder-aspect-ratio: 1024\/569;\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Anne Babalar i\u00e7in \u0130pu\u00e7lar\u0131<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<ol class=\"wp-block-list\" type=\"1\" start=\"1\">\n<li>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131zla, do\u011fru davran\u0131\u015flar ve kurallar hakk\u0131nda konu\u015fal\u0131m. Hatta kurallar\u0131 birlikte belirleyelim.&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu dinleyelim, kendisini anlatmas\u0131na vakit verelim.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Kurallar\u0131 hat\u0131rlat\u0131rken ya da uyar\u0131rken s\u00f6zs\u00fcz sinyaller de kullanabiliriz: Yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekeni elimizle i\u015faret edebilir, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hat\u0131rlatmalar\u0131 g\u00f6zlerimiz ya da hareketlerimizle g\u00f6sterebiliriz. Bunu k\u0131zmadan, hatta sakince g\u00fcl\u00fcmseyerek yapabiliriz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu yapmas\u0131n\u0131 istedi\u011fimiz davran\u0131\u015fa y\u00f6nlendirebiliriz: \u00d6rne\u011fin; \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun elinden tutarak, onu nazik ve kararl\u0131 bir \u015fekilde \u00e7antas\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00f6devinin yan\u0131na g\u00f6t\u00fcrebilir, \u2018Hadi bakal\u0131m \u00f6dev vakti\u2019 diyebiliriz.<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Yatmadan \u00f6nce di\u015flerini f\u0131r\u00e7alamas\u0131n\u0131 istiyor isek, \u201cDi\u015flerini f\u0131r\u00e7ala\u201d demek yerine, her ak\u015fam yatmadan \u00f6nce \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun yan\u0131nda ve birlikte di\u015flerimizi f\u0131r\u00e7alayabiliriz. \u00c7ocuk bizi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u00f6rnek alacakt\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/li>\n\n\n\n<li>Y\u00fcksek sesle ya da ba\u011f\u0131rarak de\u011fil, al\u00e7ak ve nazik bir ses tonu ile konu\u015fabiliriz. \u00c7ocuklar al\u00e7ak sesle konu\u015ftu\u011fumuzda da bizleri dinlerler, hatta bizi duymak i\u00e7in dinlemek zorunda kal\u0131rlar. Deneyebiliriz.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Son S\u00f6z<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar da herkes gibi hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve \u00fcz\u00fcnt\u00fc ya\u015fayabilirler. Bu her insan\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fcme s\u00fcrecinin ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmaz bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. Anne baba olarak g\u00f6revimiz, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcm hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6nlemek ya da hi\u00e7 \u00fcz\u00fclmemelerini sa\u011flamak olamaz. Bizlerin g\u00f6revi elimizden geldi\u011fince onlar\u0131 korumak ve ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fckler kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda ayakta nas\u0131l durabileceklerine y\u00f6nelik \u00e7areleri bulmalar\u0131na yard\u0131m etmektir.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Hatalar yapabiliriz. Yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z hatalar bize pek \u00e7ok \u015fey de \u00f6\u011fretebilir. Bu bizim insan oldu\u011fumuzun ve yan\u0131labilir oldu\u011fumuzun i\u015faretidir. \u00c7ocuklar da pek \u00e7ok konuda hata yaparak \u00f6\u011frenirler. \u00c7ocuklara deneme ve yan\u0131lma \u015fans\u0131 tan\u0131yarak hayat\u0131 \u00f6\u011frenmelerine m\u00fcsaade etmeliyiz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">T\u00fcrk\u00e7e<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-pdf-viewer-block-standard\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uploaded-pdf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Cocuklarimiz-ile-Saglikli-Sinirlar-Belirlemek-Pozitif-Disiplin_tr.pdf\" data-width=\"\" data-height=\"\"><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">\u0130ngilizce<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-pdf-viewer-block-standard\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uploaded-pdf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Cocuklarimiz-ile-Saglikli-Sinirlar-Belirlemek-Pozitif-Disiplin_eng.pdf\" data-width=\"\" data-height=\"\"><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Arap\u00e7a<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-pdf-viewer-block-standard\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uploaded-pdf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Cocuklarimiz-ile-Saglikli-Sinirlar-Belirlemek-Pozitif-Disiplin_ar.pdf\" data-width=\"\" data-height=\"\"><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<h3 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Fars\u00e7a<\/h3>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-pdf-viewer-block-standard\" style=\"text-align:left\"><div class=\"uploaded-pdf\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/Cocuklarimiz-ile-Saglikli-Sinirlar-Belirlemek-Pozitif-Disiplin_far.pdf\" data-width=\"\" data-height=\"\"><\/a><\/div><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bedensel ceza, bilin\u00e7li \u015fekilde yap\u0131lan fiziksel g\u00fc\u00e7 (tokat atmak, d\u00f6vmek, tutup sarsmak ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun bedenini hedef alan benzeri fiziksel hareketler) kullan\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r.  \u00c7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 kabul edilemez ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z ile olan ili\u015fkimize ciddi oranda zarar verir. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"featured_media":49144,"template":"","mhpss_post":[230],"mhpss_brosur":[229],"mhpss_video":[],"class_list":["post-49143","mhpss","type-mhpss","status-publish","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","mhpss_post-brosur","mhpss_brosur-turkce"],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mhpss\/49143","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mhpss"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/mhpss"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/49144"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=49143"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"mhpss_post","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mhpss_post?post=49143"},{"taxonomy":"mhpss_brosur","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mhpss_brosur?post=49143"},{"taxonomy":"mhpss_video","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sgdd.org.tr\/uk\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/mhpss_video?post=49143"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}